friends

They say that one has to be very patient and be a very good listener to gain friends.But when u r a very good listener and want to understand and share others feelings some people (friends) take advantage of them. They think that oh she doesnt know anything.. they treat us as if we r totally ignorant about the things they talk,when we r a very good listener. so finally i end up getting and hearing to great big advices.. !! oh my .. advices from here , from there, from whomsoever u meet .. this is getting me on my nerves each time. The speaker thinks they r either they r toooooo smart for everything and anything and that they can keep on talking. So i think one must retaliate. One shd not simply keep nodding their heads to whatever they hear.One shd talk back, that reflex action shd be fast and smart.


I met a friend here,recently. She kept talking too much. Ok i thought it would be the best time pass for now and i had to keep on going with her.What to do they r the first people whom we know here.!!!So she kept talking as if she is the best in her in law family etc etc.But u know she talks all the positive and bright sides of her most of the time. See a good politician!! She would be a great speaker one day!

But later i found that everything she does is in words and we cannot believe or rely on her completely. The way she boasts herself oh my god! I hate boasting..

I do not know where and how i can find good friends but i do have two of them now as i told earlier. So iam satisfied with that.. i hope that will continue longer and forever.

My biggest weakness is i start to expect things from others. I shdnt do it here! I know and i understand but iam not able to put in practice. People vary a lot. There r different types of people around me. And they all act according to the situation.

Human behaviour is very complex to understand in many situations. I think i shd have better mastered in psychology!!